I turned 40 in 2020, and that scared the hell out of me. Where have all the years gone?!?! How many more years do I have? Have I been spending enough time doing things I love with those I love or will I someday say 'I wish I would have...'? I remember looking my husband in the eye and said, 'I need new goals and new challenges.' I have always loved running and have met amazing people running. I'd been running trails for several years with a passion but wanted to get better, get stronger, and get fewer injuries. I spend so many hours a day making decisions that I was ready to relinquish some control and have someone tell ME what to do. And I wanted to have an accountability partner. I met Greg in passing at War Eagle trail race in 2017 and knew some folks who had referred him to others in the past, so I gave him a shout.
I had never worked with a running coach, so I had some reservations - would his plans work with my ever hectic schedule? Would he assign me crazy high mileage each week? Would this feel like more work than fun? Greg reassured me that many of his athletes have demanding jobs/careers and family commitments and he could absolutely help me out. That was March of 2020, and it's been a whirlwind of adventures since.
2022 has been the year for destination races, even convinced the husband that we should get a camper so he could experience some of the races with me! We kicked off with ABF and Running the Rose, but our first big goal race of the year was Zion 100k. Everything that could have gone wrong that race went wrong, but also taught a lot of lessons. Need to eat earlier. Need to watch out for those giant rocks that will cause excruciating toe pain. Need to take a breathe and stay level headed when the heat/altitude is taking it's toll. Need to get to your pacer so she can slap some sense into you. Need to listen to your coach and just keep moving. :) Although not the race I wanted, it felt that much more rewarding crossing the finish line. It was also the first race my husband at been voluntold to crew for, and I know he learned a lot from Greg as well.
Next on our list was Flower Moon 50 miler, I went in with the mindset that this was a fun run vs. goal race. This is a looped race and at 26.2 I decided I was done. I had stopped sweating even though I was drinking a TON, and I didn't want to do something stupid that would result in being side-lined. In October 2021 I had two race weekends back to back, didn't hydrate properly and ended up in the hospital after passing out and doing a faceplant on the sidewalk while trick or treating with the family. I did not want a repeat scenario. I called Greg to fill him in. He asked if I just needed to take a rest, and I said 'nope, I'm happy with a marathon.' But then the FOMO hit. 2.5 hours after I called it quits I asked the RD if I could reverse my decision and go back out. He gave me the thumbs up, and I headed back out with my friends who were also there. I text Greg who was kind enough not to say 'I told you so!' and ended up having a ton of fun. Lesson learned = listen to coach, take a few minutes to chill out before stopping. Now it was time to focus on the big one... Lake Murray 100 miler, eek!
In January 2022, Anne and Chris posted that they were hoping to see more women sign up for and complete the 102 mile endurance run. All it takes is for someone to dangle a challenge in front of me and I'm in. The glass of wine I had before seeing their offer also helped boost my confidence that I wanted to take on this challenge. I remember texting Greg something like 'nepotism is good' b/c I let them know Greg was my coach and he could vouch that I'd make them proud by giving it my all. They were kind and gifted me one of the free race entries they were giving to woman. And what a gift it truly was! Greg told me that if I put in the work, he'd get me to the finish line. And I didn't doubt him one bit.
I registered for Rough Creek 40 miler to help me mentally prep for Lake Murray. This one was also a looped course, I was drinking a TON and stopped sweating again. I mentally shut down. My legs were cramping, I was frustrated and I just wasn't 'feeling it.' I quit at 26.2 and felt like I was letting Greg down, letting myself down. I was just feeling down. Greg helped me shake it off, reassuring me that I was strong, I could do it, just wasn't my day and that's okay.
Next up, 4x4x48. I wasn't sure how this would go, when I've done similar challenges in the past my gut and my butt don't cooperate, ha! I loved, loved, loved this one. Greg plugged it into the plan and thank goodness no gut issues this go around.
And just like that the end of October had arrived. I had two awesome pacers and an excited hubs who was taking on the role of crew chief. Greg hopped on a Zoom with us and answered all of our questions a few weeks in advance. He gave us nuggets of wisdom and advice based on experience. We had text message groups chattering away - who ordered the rain? What's everyone wearing? How many pairs of shoes is everyone bringing? A fire was ignited. Greg reminded me, he would get me to that finish, I just had to make it from AS to AS, he'd push me back out. And he did. At mile 97-ish, Greg did his Ninja move and appeared out of thin air, telling me to smile and look strong as I started my last 5 mile loop. If Greg wasn't such a genuinely nice person I may have punched him. But I couldn't punch him, he had been giving me words of encouragement at each and every AS, helped me with my gators/socks/shoes, helped grab me what I needed when I needed it.
I never wanted to run a marathon. Until I did. I never wanted to run a 50k. Until I did. I never, ever imagined I'd want to run 102 miles. Until I did. I can say with 100% confidence that I never would have been able to complete that goal without Greg. Not only does Greg know what he's doing, he helps lay out what I need to do, which isn't something that can happen by Googling training plans. Greg's approach to cross-training is refreshing and works well for me. Greg's approach to balance (work-life-training) is forgiving. If I'm in a funk, he offers grace and time to get out of the funk, adapting the plan if and when needed. Greg isn't just a running coach, he's a connector - he helps introduce you to some really amazing people, people who aren't just acquaintances, but become true friends. It takes a trail community to get a runner to the finish line of 100 miles, and I am so grateful that I have the best trail community to adventure with.